Im 15& 8 weeks pregnant I need advice abortion or adoption is not an option advise plz?

my mom hates my bf if she finds out we are still together she will flip how do I tell herIm 15%26amp; 8 weeks pregnant I need advice abortion or adoption is not an option advise plz?
Time to grow up and be an adult and just tell her like it is. Start looking for a place for you, the bf, and the baby to live because she will most likely kick you out. If you are younger then 18 then you might need to talk to a relative about staying with them for a while.





Sorry about your situation.Im 15%26amp; 8 weeks pregnant I need advice abortion or adoption is not an option advise plz?
Ok, you will need to tell her at some point. If I were you, and I'm not, but I would wait until I was 12 weeks so they wouldn't try to force me to have an abortion (since you said you definately don't want one). Eat right in the mean time and take your vitamins (a lot of doctors won't see you until week 12 anyway, and they just tell you the same - take your vitamins and see you then. At that point sit down with the boyfriend and parents and say this has happened and just let it take it's course. If you do it in a mature way, you may score some points with your parents. Be prepared though. They will be MAD. You are after all, only 15.





Malia - CHILL OUT. It's done. Over with. She's pregnant. What is your bitchin about it going to do? she said abortion is out of the question so SHAME ON YOU for getting on her case over it.
First, get some pre-natal vitamins. You need them to help keep your child healthy and prevents birth defects. Secondly, please stay out of smoky environments and if you smoke or drink stop. This not only harms you, but your unborn child. Third, you need to sit your mom down and just be honest (Maybe you should have a place you can go for the night just in case she kicks you out). There really isn't any more you can do but that. It's not like you can hide it for long.





I know you're in a really tough spot right now and you must be feeling really anxious. I'm sorry about that. As you said, abortion or adoption is not an option, and I commend you on that. You are making a very hard decision, but one that will be rewarding in the end. I got pregnant at 17 and not in HS, not quite the same as you, but still difficult. I was also in a relationship with a man my mother didn't care for, but she didn't really have a choice...it was her granchild I was carrying. Remember that this isn't only hard on you two, but it will be hard for both of your parents. They, I hope, care about you guys and will come around and support you. If your mom kicks you out there are places that you can go to get help especially if you're in a big city. There is a place (can't remember where) called Mercy Ministries that takes in young mothers or I'm sure would be able to locate a place near you if you ever needed help. They don't charge you anything except to help out around the house. I know someone that went there and it changed their life forever. One more thing, please try as hard as you can to stay in school. I know it will be hard, but it's important for your future. I will pray for you and if you ever need anything add me as a contact and send me a message...I have a lot of life experiences that I have come through...and most of them weren't easy. Be blessed.
you just have to tell her. the longer you wait, the worse it will be. and you cant hide it from her for that long anyways, she will know with the symptoms. frequent urination, increase in eating habits, and adding a few pounds.


and eventually she will have to accept it. that also means you need to step up if you are keeping the baby.
I had a friend that found out she was pregnant when she was 16. She knew that her mom was going to have a cow too. But she did tell her, her mom cried, but she got the med attention she needed. Yes, you should be more careful and all these people are going to look down on you. Blah blah blah. Everythings happens for a reason, and whatever that reason is, it will work out. But you do have to tell your mom, soon.
wow that very strong of u not to put the baby up for adoption or to get a horrible abortion. there are home where u can go and stay and they provide for u and ur baby even after ur babys is born ur still going to school wich is just awsome! and get a phone book or seach on the web for girls home for pregnet tenns around u live and in tell then maybe go to a friends house stay a few days weeks whatever with her.it will be ok u are very mature ill pray for you and i hope you get the help u need
You need to tell your mother. She will find out anyway. Adoption is the only option or keeping your baby. No need to kill an innocent baby. You had sex and now you have a baby to take care of or put up for adoption. If you think you are responsible enough to have sex then you need to stand up and be responsible for the life you have created.


Tell her you made a mistake. Be honest with her.
you really need to tell her my friend was pregnant and she waited until she was 5 months to tell and wen she went to the doctors they called her back in and had to induce her labor cuz her son had a complication and well it was very sad becuz he died after being alive for 8 minutes so plz tell ur mom i dont want anything bad to happen to u or ur baby ... if u want to tlk just e mail me at dramaqueencjb@yahoo.com :)
You only have three choices sweetie





Parenting


Adoption


Abortion





If you are to young to even get a job, aren't you too young to be a mom. A good mother makes sure that she can support her children. How will you support this pregnancy and subsequent baby? You do know that having a baby will jack up your 4.0 at school? Think about this well and decide if you want your childhood and teenage yrs to end right now. Are you ready for a crash course into the adult world? Are you ready to drop out of school to stand in a welfare line?


Rethink this . . . .








If you need it . . . .


If you go to a Planned Parenthood clinic that has a low-income program it can be as cheap as 100$. If you tells them you have no job, no money and no support they will likely have you pay the minimum for the procedure and get donations to cover the rest. 1-800-230-PLAN (1-800-230-7526) to find the Planned Parenthood clinic nearest you.





You have the choice between the pill (which can be taken up to 11weeks, at home or at a friends house) or the vacuum method (in clinic procedure). Personally I used the pill method so I could be at home with my husband but some women want to have the surgical, so it's done and over with when they leave the clinic.





If you are underage you may want to check this site out to see about parental consent laws and whatnot. http://www.sexetc.org/state Even if it says you need parental consent, you don't. Call PP and tell them you cannot tell your parents; by law, a judicial bypass must be available to those minors who just cannot get their parents/guardians permission. A judge signs the parental consent acting as a de facto guardian.





I respect that it is your choice and understand that you are probably doing what's best for you. If you want/need to talk about it drop me an email.





It is entirely possible to have an abortion and not feel guilt because you knew it was the right thing to do.


ImNotSorry.net





~Pro-Choice Momma; Have had an abortion %26lt;no regrets%26gt; and I have a 8 month old daughter %26lt;no regrets%26gt;. I believe in protecting my daughter's choice.


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Just sit her down and say you need her support on this no matter what.





I mean it will be hard but You NEED to tell your mom. You need regular prenatal care for you and your baby. Good Luck!





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well that's the father of your child. it shouldn't matter if she hates him or not. just let her know that he plans on being there for the baby and it would mean a lot to you if you had his support. i hope i helped.
Adoption IS an option.





You are a child. You should NOT be having sex for Pete's sake! Didn't you think this could happen?





Shame on you for thinking of murdering your unborn BABY.
you're right....abortion is NOT the solution...............your mom will be mad at first......whose mom wouldn't be if her 15 yrs old child is pregnant.....but she will come around cuz it is her grandchild and she will want the best for you and the baby...........
hello you have more things to worry about then how your moms gonna react because your still with your bf!......how about ';hey mom im pregnant!!! and i dont know what to do!!!';
Just come out and say it, there is no other way. you need medical atention and besides she is goign to notice sooner or later..